DESIRES
We will explore how desires can either foster
positive relationships or potentially lead to
negative ones. This includes situations where
counselling becomes necessary. Additionally,
we will examine how individuals can emerge as
relationship counsellors, rather than simply
engaging in casual conversations on this topic.
Our goal is to explore the reasons behind our
existence, resilience, and individuality as
survivors. It's important to comprehend the
various desires we possess. Additionally, we will
explore how our desires influence the dynamics
of our relationship. We will explore the
importance of desires and how changing their
priorities can impact relationships.
We will explore the potential obstacles that
individuals encounter in life. What are
considered normal or what are common
experiences that every individual encounters,
and how do they typically react to them?
There is a concept that requires our
comprehension. In essence, our focus will be on
exploring the distinctiveness of each person
and the various challenging experiences they
encounter in life. The topics discussed are
broad. We will be discussing the models and
then applying them to our own lives to
determine their relevance and applicability. We
will only consider and implement these
principles when we are willing to accept and act
upon them.
Desire is the feeling of wanting or wishing for
something. For example - I am interested in
purchasing a specific brand of cold water. If
not, I will refrain from indulging in my wants.
Once again, your personal needs and desires
will serve as the driving force for personal
growth, finding meaning, building relationships,
and comprehending the world. Certainly, the
aspect brought up regarding desires pertains to
your yearnings or aspirations for something
that you anticipate receiving and eagerly
anticipate.
What is the origin of these desires?
These desires arise from the needs we will have.
When discussing needs, it refers to something
you desire or aspire to possess. There is a
crucial necessity that must be met for your
survival. Your survival is in jeopardy if you don't
possess that. Survival encompasses more than
just the physical aspect. This also includes the
emotional and social components.
When discussing desires, it's essentially about
having something in life that motivates us to
wake up each day and pursue our actions. Our
desires manifest in various ways. It could serve
as a motivation for being a social individual, for
fostering togetherness, and for establishing
connections with others, among other things.
That could potentially be beneficial for us.
They are excited about making connections
with others and receiving validation from them,
among other things.
It could be associated with the social aspect,
where the focus is on building connections with
various individuals.
Certain wants may have an emotional aspect to
them. When we say "emotional," it refers to our
desire for validation and happiness. We desire
recognition from both others and ourselves.
Therefore, the focus lies on our level of stability
and satisfaction.
The emotional aspects primarily involve
feelings of joy, happiness, and satisfaction,
among other similar emotions.
They are excited about making connections
with others and receiving validation from them,
among other things.
It could be associated with the social aspect,
where the focus is on building connections with
various individuals.
Certain wants may have an emotional aspect to
them. When we say "emotional," it refers to our
desire for validation and happiness. We desire
recognition from both others and ourselves.
Therefore, the focus lies on our level of stability
and satisfaction.
The emotional aspects primarily involve
feelings of joy, happiness, and satisfaction,
among other similar emotions.
When discussing social aspects, it primarily
concerns our level of connectivity and ability to
engage with others effectively.
What types of relationships can you develop with
individuals and various groups? Perhaps joining
certain groups could provide a sense of
fulfilment and satisfy your desire for a positive
experience in life.
Additionally, there are materialistic aspirations
such as owning a car, having a comfortable living
space, and a desirable home, among other
things. Therefore, the focus is primarily on the
tangible necessities that cars need. Additionally,
we possess a couple of spiritual aspirations.
Therefore, the focus lies on the theoretical ideas
that are commonly discussed.
When discussing social aspects, it primarily
concerns our level of connectivity and ability to
engage with others effectively.
What types of relationships can you develop with
individuals and various groups? Perhaps joining
certain groups could provide a sense of
fulfilment and satisfy your desire for a positive
experience in life.
Additionally, there are materialistic aspirations
such as owning a car, having a comfortable living
space, and a desirable home, among other
things. Therefore, the focus is primarily on the
tangible necessities that cars need. Additionally,
we possess a couple of spiritual aspirations.
Therefore, the focus lies on the theoretical ideas
that are commonly discussed.
Materialistic refers to something physical or
tangible, providing temporary pleasure before
eventually deteriorating and vanishing. When
discussing the concept of a spiritual catastrophe,
it primarily involves comprehending the realm
that exists beyond material possessions and
emotions. One is attempting to understand
concepts related to God, the existence of God,
our existence within the universe, and similar
topics.
Once your fundamental desires and needs,
including social, emotional, and materialistic
ones, are adequately fulfilled. Many of us have a
natural inclination to explore the spiritual
aspects of religion, as it can provide us with a
deeper comprehension of life's meaning and
purpose.
What is the reason behind my current emotional
state?
What is the meaning or significance of my
existence?
What is causing my current feeling of happiness
and how can I maintain or prolong this state of
joy?
These questions will be more advanced
compared to the question about how to survive
and what strategies one needs to employ for a
successful outcome. When discussing desires,
they can vary in complexity. Having specific
possessions and resources to consider one's
existence is a fundamental human desire.
What is the purpose of your existence?
Why have you been brought to this earth and
what is your role here?
What is the reason behind my current emotional
state?
What is the meaning or significance of my
existence?
What is causing my current feeling of happiness
and how can I maintain or prolong this state of
joy?
These questions will be more advanced
compared to the question about how to survive
and what strategies one needs to employ for a
successful outcome. When discussing desires,
they can vary in complexity. Having specific
possessions and resources to consider one's
existence is a fundamental human desire.
What is the purpose of your existence?
Why have you been brought to this earth and
what is your role here?
The question of our true identity, "Who am I?", is
something we all long to explore and seek
answers for. Desires serve as the motivation that
propels us to pursue goals and aspirations in life.
They provide us with a sense of purpose and
drive us to work towards achieving specific
objectives.
