
BEING NON JUDGEMENTAL
Excerpts from the session:
✓ Every individual internally creates a framework for others and runs a comparison and
draws conclusions based on the understanding that he has developed. When this
framework is not created internally which is difficult, it is non judgemental.
✓ Gautam Buddha says we should look at things without any interpretation, without
prejudice, without being biased, without any analysis, without any notion and
preconception.
✓ The tendency to survive and procreate is the basic level of every living thing on this
planet, then comes the intellectual level in which there is a scope of being
judgemental, and finally comes the level of consciousness which all of us should try
to reach, without which being non-judgemental is not possible.
✓ Freedom from past experiences, welcoming uncertainties, missing of wow factors,
mechanical/robotic lives without spontaneity, and feeling of gratefulness are some
of the essential factors to awaken and enhance our consciousness.
✓ When we awaken our consciousness, it lets us understand that we have no right to
be judgemental. This happens when we practice, introspect, self-observe, and live a
simple pure life.
✓ Happiness is transcended from pain and pleasure.
✓ Accept others as they are but not possible to change them. When we try to enhance
our level of consciousness, we will understand that there is no need to change
others at all.
✓ Try to be nobody with everybody. Nobody can make you feel inferior without your
consent.
✓ Forgiveness refers to not contaminating or spoiling our life journey and letting it go
which eventually leads to the derivation of pleasure than pain.
✓ Creating a balance between what we want to do (heartfully) and what decision we
take(cognitively) plays a vital role.
✓ By being empathetic, understanding, assertive, and non-judgemental, we don’t need
to get perfect expected results every time with everyone. It is essential to accept ups
and downs in the journey of life. This is possible only through practice and
consistency.